I have to say that my heart sunk a bit when I heard that James Kim was found dead earlier this afternoon. I didn’t know him, but I admire him, his courage and what he tried to do.

Stuck in a somewhat hopeless situation for days with no way to contact the outside world, out of resources and no signs of anyone locating you, he did what most of us would do in the same situation: try to find help.

In my opinion he was a hero for trying to save his family for a tragic ending.

Well.. finally a place where I can express. Really debated a lot how and where to write. English is not my first language but decided to write it so I can have an excuse for all my typos and bad grammar. If anything I am sure my english will improve

Any way, my first intention in what to write is about sex. Still not sure if this site would sensored it but what the heck need it to share some of my past experiences. If anything to keep some recollection on who, what and where : )

Well, I travel a lot, hence the opportunity to meet a lot of people. This week so it happens I am at the middle of the US (no-where)but of course there are men.

Well just last week a couple visit me. They are a bi/couple (love the bi term is so ambigous) that is each one married and whoes families actually hang out together but who happen to have a relashionship (talk about options in this world). Anyhow what was memorable about this encounter was that they all visit me at 5am in the morning. These guys (and I) have work and a life to take care so early morning was the only available time to meet. It was really cold ouside so when they enter the room I was already showered and naked (I was really excited). Well just to make it quick we had an incredible threesome where It was my first time that I double fuck someone. It was really great. After a lot of sucking, body contact and kissing.. Brian decided to put me a rubber and got on top of me, after a couple of minutes Trev join us. At some point and for several minutes I was joined fucking Brian. Two cocks inside him..great feeling another cock touching mine. This caught me by suprise but nevertheless enjoy it as hell.

Anyway it didn’t took long for me to cum but it was damn nice to host this.

It seems we are going to repeat it this week .. I will try to update this blog with more stories.

Please feel free to drop a line of encouragement too. : )

We are closing in on four weeks since the site launch. In that time we have attracted members from 26 countries!

The news headlines launch was a big step for us, as we are working to becoming a gay destination site that has all the features of the best portals.

We will soon be launching our chat features, something that I know a lot have been waiting for. We will have Instant Messaging, which will allow an online member to ping another and have a chat. We will also have Chat Rooms where one member can invite another or many to enter a private room; and there will also be Video Chat, where members that have an installed video camera on their computer can truly check each other out.

It is an exciting step forward as we work to enhance the member experience for all BigJock.com users, and hopefully attract new ones.

That is what social networking is all about - have one member join who then invites his friends who in turn invite their pals. This creates a true community, one in which my friend becomes a friend of your friend’s friend.

Someone out there knows someone who knows Donna Summer. I am sure of it!

Other plans we have for the not so distant future include adding Columns by the Experts. What we envision are bi-monthly articles written by noted professionals that have an expertise in a field that is of interest to this community. These areas include photography, real estate, medical, health, fitness, movies, books, travel, dining, cooking, technology and a host of others. So… if you are an expert in any of these fields and are interested in having a by-line on a well-visited website, here is your chance!

Send me a note and let me know where your expertise lies, and if you are committed to coming up with relevant content twice monthly.